Every new beginning is scary, especially when we are talking about a job or a career change. On one hand, you are happy because you have a new opportunity to evolve and earn money, but on the other hand, you are afraid of disappointing those who trusted you. If you chose non-adult online modeling, the road to becoming a cam girl won’t be easy and you won’t know from the start exactly what to do. This is what colleagues are for, and more experienced models will teach you all you need to know. All you have to do is ask.
Just like Roxy, who recently joined a private forum dedicated to young women activating in cam studios all around the world. “Hello, I’m on my way to becoming a cam girl and I’m not yet very good at it. When a member wants to talk to me, I hesitate, I don’t know what to say, how to keep the conversation going. I think I am a bit shy, this is my personality. Do you have some advice?”, she asked. The results came pouring in and we selected the best of them.
“Simply try to find who your members are. Ask them what movies they like, what music do they listen to, what’s their take on the current global situation. Adapt according to the man in front of the webcam, that’s the key to becoming a cam girl, a successful one. You got this!”, Lilyy encouraged her. “Think about the fact that you will earn a lot of money and courage will come. Look in the mirror and say: ‘I am beautiful, I am smart, and I can have any man I want’. This is what I do every morning, to motivate myself”, Ally answered.
On the other hand, Sabrina gave very straight-forward advice: “When you don’t know what to say, let your members speak! Becoming a cam girl also involves active listening, being a sort of psychologist that lets the others do the talking. It works very well in practice and you should try it! Maybe you are the patient type, listening more than talking. My members are all very talkative, but I am the same”. Iris states that it’s perfectly normal for Roxy to feel shy at first, but this shouldn’t scare her. “Members are normal people and the more you get to know them, the more comfortable you will feel talking to them. Find out who they are, what they like, what they like to talk about. Encourage them to open up and you will open up too”, Iris encouraged her younger colleague.
Last but not least, Krisztyna recommended an article entitled “The best icebreakers to start an interesting conversation with your members”. In this article, those who look to embark on the journey of becoming a cam girl are advised to talk about their members’ looks, complimenting their facial features or outfit, about a common topic, such as the weather or a burning subject, or about the reason why they are searching for an online model to talk to.