You must be able to UNDERSTAND your partner and you must be able to feel UNDERSTOOD. Otherwise, you are heading down a negative spiral.
However, it does not have to be really wrong – if you do something about the situation in time.
Therefore, it is important that you give your intimate togetherness focus and make an effort to even more flirt, touch, joke and go to bed with each other. Make sure that you do not lose the spark and have fun with each other.
Couple therapy (parterapi) will help you with tools and strategies.
When you have made the effort to really understand each other, it is possible to feel good and enjoy your relationship with each other. You are able to be playful and lighthearted with each other. At the same time, you do not have to become the boring one in the relationship. You can enjoy being a bit more silly and have fun with each other.
If you think that you are not having fun, you are wrong. You are able to get the fun from your relationship without your having to break away from the relationship. It takes two people to have fun in a relationship. But, having the fun does not mean that you lose the love. After all, you are still the same person – you are still the same loving person. You can have fun with your partner and you can also have fun with yourself. You can still enjoy the love and make the relationship (parforhold) more fun.
However, make sure that you avoid being too serious with each other. Avoid being the boring one in the relationship with all the fun and romance turned off. If you are in a serious relationship, you should really try to make your relationship more fun to be able to keep the attraction alive.
One of the fun things you can do is to make a list of the reasons why you like the things in your partner. Then, you can compare your list with the list of your partner. You can even try to have some discussions about the things that you liked the most in your partner. That way, you can get the fun and romance back in your relationship.
If you are the fun partner, you can even make your partner do some things on the weekend. That way, you can have fun with your partner.
These fun activities will give you the fun and romance back in your relationship. You and your partner can enjoy the same things, when you are both the fun lovers.
Saving Your Marriage – Is It Possible?
Do you want to save your marriage? If so, couple therapy might be the solution. But does it help (hjælper parterapi)? With couple therapy you and your partner will think about how your relationship started. You can remember the things you both used to do together in the beginning. You can take part in your partner’s activities, but it’s better if you only do the things you like. Remember, no two people are alike. If you or your partner is the fun person, that should be enough to keep you together. If you and your partner cannot find anything else to do on the weekend, then go for a romantic dinner in Frederiksberg. You can even take part in a romantic movie. That way, you can have fun and romance together.
Things Will Be Alright
If your relationship started with fun and romance, and if you and your partner cannot find anything else to do on the weekend in København, then you should keep the romance alive. Do not let the idea of a weekend reunion take you away from the idea of a weekend reunion. Remember, you and your partner are the most important thing in your life. Saving your marriage, will give you the fun and romance back in your relationship.